¡ ¡ CHOOSE ! !

OWN Yourself!

>> by Owning Your Actions <<

NOTE: These Sites Are 4... individuals that want freedom more than comfort.

4... people who feel too much & want grow anyway.

Here we DON'T sugar-coat life. We DON'T follow the victim script!


We look our stories in the eye, question the scripts we were given & following so far, & dare imagine something truer. Dare think anew - through different lenses.

The following stories & information's aren't there make you feel good - immediately!

BUT... they are meant enable you take back ownership above YOU... your system, action & destiny, eventually - sometimes all at once - gain back your power do & be you! write your own story & therewith destiny, eventually!

You're either willing face the struggles & hurdles in your life...

learn their lessons... get the insight...

!¡ That's It !¡

Hi, I'm Linna,

The Question & Quest that is asked & tried ↊ be solved on these pages & posts is;

How be/come the Conscious, Intended Creator of Your Own Life?¡

The Question... How We Can Take Back Ownership over Ourselves - our Own Life & Destiny!

That becomes a simple funnel: clarity → courage → creation.

A T L A S

STAGE I: The Human CONDITIONING

✧ BE/COME the NARRATOR of Your Own Life's Narration!¡

We DON'T Start Life Free. We Start Life TRAINED - CONDITIONED.

A child can’t yet question what they’re told—so the first “truths” are borrowed. They keep the world coherent. They keep belonging intact.

Over time, those truths meet reality… & crack.

Melting Stones is a place 4 people who feel that crack—& want turn it into a forge.

PASSIVE

AutoPilot vs. Intention

AutoPilot vs. Intention

New Blog Post Description ...more

mental ,camel

January 28, 20262 min read

In-

VISIBLE

YOUR LIFE SHOULD BE YOURS ¡!

From my Point of View... Most People Seem ↊ be... well... I DON'T know what a fitting term might be... fine? content enough?... with merely SleepWalking through their own life - or the time-frame that was supposed ↊ be/come their life...

Yeah... I might feel partially guilty 4 saying so, && Yeah... My Bone-Deep Longing 4 Strong People, Character & Leader goes probably strongly down ↊ my own Short-Comings & Failings...

Even So... These Pages Aim ↊ Serve && Speak ↊ this part && seeking within me

Learn HOW 2 do this && WHY it is of crucial importance!

Are you familiar with the feeling & experience that you strive & hunger 4 change & improvement & you run in all possible & impossible directions like a crazy person... & yeah, you do make progress along the way, but truly slowly & absolutely randomly - at least ↊ me there was no method visible ↊ the madness called (my) life. Yet, it's not completely true... method might not be the right term, but there was && is a somewhat system or structure! I was pulled along by that what made me feel more alive. That what resonated with something within me.

So, after years of disoriented, headless (ineffective & inefficient) hustling & running & stumbling around - be honest more being busy with being busy, than I would care ↊ admit... things started ↊ come together. Some of my inner drama & chaos started ↊ settle & ease up, even though it still left me as a stranger in a crazy & I think mostly numb, thoughtless, heartless(?) world.

Here are some summaries, collections & "collages" of concepts & thought-experiments that helped me along the way, ↊ change my way of thinking & feeling about me... my life / life in general... & how ↊ approach things.

Maybe some aspects, notes or sentences will help you ahead or along, 4 just a little bit & a little while, as well.

~ essentially this is what it comes down ~

Everybody tells us WHAT to do... what to think & believe - what to desire, value & aim at. Yet, no one teaches us HOW claim ownership of our own mind.

HOW reason, HOW think, HOW decide & choose . . . HOW manage & use our own mind in an effective & efficient way

>> HOW concentrate & focus. . . HOW set goals && maybe even more importantly... chase them & make them real & true/truth!

Learn2 Own Your Own Mind - Own Your Thoughts, Your Stories & Your Future!

Stage 1 — Inherited Truths (Programming)

In the beginning, we Absorb Reality through && by others - opinions, values, desires & intentions, goals...

  • ORIGIN: Family, culture, school, religion, trauma, praise, punishment—everything becomes a silent script.

  • GIFT: structure, identity, stability - expectancy, predictability

  • SHADOW: blind spots, fear of difference, living by defaults

    • obedience, sleepwalking, living other people’s definitions

  • SIGNS you’re here: you feel “safe” but small; you follow rules & values you didn’t choose & might not even be aware of.

  • LVL-UP: UnLearn (Stage 1 Awareness)

    • conditioning, beliefs, identity scripts, nervous system patterns

    • "What shaped me?" "What am I still obeying?"

ACTIVE

Acting & Doing

Acting & Doing

Get a better understanding of the place & value of your actions! ...more

physical ,lion

May 03, 20269 min read

Passion = Ambition

Passion = Ambition

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physical

January 25, 20266 min read

Self-Mastery

Self-Mastery

2 master your actions you have 2 master your body / system. 2 master your body, you have 2 master your mind. Take charge of your attitude of mind 2 take charge of the quality of your life. ...more

physical

January 23, 20261 min read

VISIBLE

Dive In... 2 Find Out!

NOTE: You Can't Get Wet, From the Word Water!

FACT or FICTION?! The Stories Constantly Playing Within Your Head - About You & Everything or Everyone Around You.

The modern, western societies love their minds! Their seemingly faultless ability 2 think & reason - decide/choose & act consciously & intended. Yet, more often than not are we lived by others & exist 4 their purposes & interests, because we DON'T own our own minds! We are programmed 2 act in certain ways, claim certain positions & roles, in life & society, which more often than not DON'T serve us or align with our desires...

Your Identity & Personality... Nothing More than a Made Up Story & Habit?!

It's said that the strongest force in an individuals life is to ACT in alignment with their identity. This means that your life > your destiny & faith - your daily actions & decisions - are based on & determined by your identity > a set of beliefs about you which most likely has been given TO YOU, by your surrounding.

The Mental Game - Does Knowledge, Fact or Truth Even Exist? & What Consequences Does It Have?

The myth about the human freedom. It's a beautiful phantasm, injected into individuals minds, that says that a person without physical visible chains is free. Yet, most aren't even close 2 aware of their own imprisonment by their own mind. They don't own their mind - their thoughts or thinking & therewith are NOT able 2 own their lives!

Sources 2 Dive In2

"INSANITY:

Doing the same thing over & over again

& expecting different results."

referred 2 Albert Einstein

"2 live is 2 suffer,

2 survive is 2

find some meaning in the suffering."

Friedrich Nietzsche

CORE QUESTIONS

NOTE: Questions ARE the Origin of Every Thought! KNOW the Questions WITHIN YOUR HEAD!! Which drive your everyday actions & overall trajectory.

Why Does the Mind Matter? - It's Role & Importance

[Once you've worked with GG on the objections or questions your clients may have, ask her for help drafting the answers to those questions!]

What 2 Get Aware & Conscious of... 1st >> 2 then Get Intended >> 2 Own Your Choices / Decisions & Actions, Eventually.

You have 2 have become aware of the role your everyday thoughts play in your life. They are the building blocks your life is made of & build upon!

Your thoughts express your focus & your focus defines into what direction you are moving, advancing & growing. Meaning: determines who & how you become!

Who Am I? & How Important Is That Question / Knowing the Answer 2 It?

In case you fall into that soo easily & tempting trap most fall into, at least at one stage in their lives, then KNOW: You are neither your past nor your current circumstances!

They are the results of your past! The result of past choices, decisions & actions. They are NOT YOU!! They are the result of habits & routines that you have learned most likely from the family & environment you have grown up in.

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