NOTE: These Sites Are 4... individuals that want freedom more than comfort.
4... people who feel too much & want ↊ grow anyway.
Here we DON'T sugar-coat life. We DON'T follow the victim script!
We look our stories in the eye, question the scripts we were given & following so far, & dare ↊ imagine something truer. Dare ↊ think anew - through different lenses.
The following stories & information's aren't there ↊ make you feel good - immediately!
BUT... they are meant ↊ enable you ↊ take back ownership above YOU... your system, action & destiny, eventually - sometimes all at once - ↊ gain back your power ↊ do & be you! ↊ write your own story & therewith destiny, eventually!
You're either willing ↊ face the struggles & hurdles in your life...
↊ learn their lessons... get the insight...

!¡ That's It !¡
That becomes a simple funnel: clarity → courage → creation.

A child can’t yet question what they’re told—so the first “truths” are borrowed. They keep the world coherent. They keep belonging intact.
Over time, those truths meet reality… & crack.
Melting Stones is a place 4 people who feel that crack—& want ↊ turn it into a forge.

Are you familiar with the feeling & experience that you strive & hunger 4 change & improvement & you run in all possible & impossible directions like a crazy person... & yeah, you do make progress along the way, but truly slowly & absolutely randomly - at least ↊ me there was no method visible ↊ the madness called (my) life. Yet, it's not completely true... method might not be the right term, but there was && is a somewhat system or structure! I was pulled along by that what made me feel more alive. That what resonated with something within me.
So, after years of disoriented, headless (ineffective & inefficient) hustling & running & stumbling around - ↊ be honest more being busy with being busy, than I would care ↊ admit... things started ↊ come together. Some of my inner drama & chaos started ↊ settle & ease up, even though it still left me as a stranger in a crazy & I think mostly numb, thoughtless, heartless(?) world.
Here are some summaries, collections & "collages" of concepts & thought-experiments that helped me along the way, ↊ change my way of thinking & feeling about me... my life / life in general... & how ↊ approach things.
Maybe some aspects, notes or sentences will help you ahead or along, 4 just a little bit & a little while, as well.
~ essentially this is what it comes down ↊ ~
Everybody tells us WHAT to do... what to think & believe - what to desire, value & aim at. Yet, no one teaches us HOW ↊ claim ownership of our own mind.
HOW ↊ reason, HOW ↊ think, HOW ↊ decide & choose . . . HOW ↊ manage & use our own mind in an effective & efficient way
>> HOW ↊ concentrate & focus. . . HOW ↊ set goals && maybe even more importantly... chase them & make them real & true/truth!
Learn2 Own Your Own Mind - Own Your Thoughts, Your Stories & Your Future!
Stage 1 — Inherited Truths (Programming)
In the beginning, we Absorb Reality through && by others - opinions, values, desires & intentions, goals...
ORIGIN: Family, culture, school, religion, trauma, praise, punishment—everything becomes a silent script.
GIFT: structure, identity, stability - expectancy, predictability
SHADOW: blind spots, fear of difference, living by defaults
obedience, sleepwalking, living other people’s definitions
SIGNS you’re here: you feel “safe” but small; you follow rules & values you didn’t choose & might not even be aware of.
LVL-UP: UnLearn (Stage 1 → Awareness)
conditioning, beliefs, identity scripts, nervous system patterns
"What shaped me?" "What am I still obeying?"

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2 master your actions you have 2 master your body / system. 2 master your body, you have 2 master your mind. Take charge of your attitude of mind 2 take charge of the quality of your life. ...more
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Doing the same thing over & over again
& expecting different results."
referred 2 Albert Einstein

"2 live is 2 suffer,
2 survive is 2
find some meaning in the suffering."
Friedrich Nietzsche
Why Does the Mind Matter? - It's Role & Importance
[Once you've worked with GG on the objections or questions your clients may have, ask her for help drafting the answers to those questions!]
You have 2 have become aware of the role your everyday thoughts play in your life. They are the building blocks your life is made of & build upon!
Your thoughts express your focus & your focus defines into what direction you are moving, advancing & growing. Meaning: determines who & how you become!
In case you fall into that soo easily & tempting trap most fall into, at least at one stage in their lives, then KNOW: You are neither your past nor your current circumstances!
They are the results of your past! The result of past choices, decisions & actions. They are NOT YOU!! They are the result of habits & routines that you have learned most likely from the family & environment you have grown up in.
